Phil Bubar

Memoirist & Speaker

Finding My Voice: The New Metric

A memoir about finding your voice by learning to listen.

“For forty years, I held the keys to other people's doors, only to discover that the most complicated rooms are the ones inside ourselves.”
An open notebook and books beside a coffee cup overlooking a sunlit coast
A place to begin.Phil Bubar

The story

Phil Bubar is a memoirist, speaker, and lifelong storyteller — the son of Russian Jewish immigrants, a property manager turned playwright, a two-term Rotary Club president, and the man who once answered to the title of mayor of Venice. His book, Finding My Voice: The New Metric, is part memoir, part manifesto: an honest, warm story about identity, belonging, culture, family, and becoming more fully yourself.

The book lives in these rooms:

Phil's philosophy

Phil's philosophy is simple to say and hard to live: be a contributor, not a title-holder. Open your hands and give the gift away. Plant what you want to grow, and then stay and water it. Listen before you speak — because the voice was never the point; the ears came first.

Pull up a chair.

Start with the About page, and stay for the conversation.